Yes. I believe this. Everything depends on you. But mostly your life. My parents had always told me that I cannot do music in my life. It cannot work. Especially in my small country. I agreed.
Im from Slovakia. In our past we had really bad time, communism, socialism. Our countryside is beautiful, people are very kind, nice, peaceful, but thats all I can say. 3/4 of nation are alcoholic, we have no tradition, no money for culture and from time to time we still fight with some basic democratic principles. Lot of us are out of reality, altho there is nothing weird on it, coz we had closed our borders for 40 years. For generation of my parents; this age has to killing them. People here dont have enough money. Our market is small, the only bands which have success here, are bands which were formed in communism and they still play their old soc - pop. Mainstream. Something like Bon Jovi in his best age. Or the bands which were formed in 90s and wanna imitate their soc pop rock mainstream heros 
So thats why I thought, that beeing coder is my dream carrier. I really liked this job. And I liked also benefits I got from it. Music was my hobby. And thats how it should have stayed for rest of my life…..but…
As times came, and as I worked harder and harder, and still couldnt buy my own house, I started to think about it….more and more…every day…and I found out that Im not happy…Why we are living our lives, when we are not satisfied ? When we have to go to our jobs on daily basis, every day, doing same stuff, which we apparently dont like and also money we get from this are like really good joke. We just contribute to business, which is not ours, and so we cannot see long-term fruits. We are just fuckin robots. And we got only one life…wtf is that ?